Where is my uniform? Where are my shoes? My shirt and my skirt? All given the same answer. ‘Wherever you left them!’ Monday morning causing mayhem since 2010. Uniforms are found, stains are baby wiped. Un-showered hair put up and … Continue reading
And there it was trapped. Trapped and tangled by the unfortunate events that led it to this place. I looked at amazement as the more it twisted in the unrelenting battering of storm Frank the less it was getting free. … Continue reading
You have got your hands full there…. A common phrase often said to me as I juggle my 5 kids usually 2 or 3 of them crying and a shopping trolley at the Tesco till. Or as I am having … Continue reading
‘That is my bike’
‘Doesn’t matter! It’s mine’
‘But you aren’t using it’
‘It’s mine and you can’t have it!’
‘Why can’t I? You aren’t going on it!’
‘It’s mine and you aren’t using it!’
And so it continues the back and forth of ‘it’s mine and you aren’t going to use it and I refuse to budge’. Everyone loses out. The bike isn’t used, no one gets to play. What a shame. We later on explain that in this house we do generous. In this house we do what’s mine is yours and what’s yours is mine. It’s non- negotiable, we aim and desire to be a generous family. Not just generous with our possessions and our money but our love, our friendship, our time, our words, our encouragement and even our very thoughts towards others.
A generous heart is something that you can see immediately in others, it is attractive and contagious. You want to be around those who are generous with their love. The company of people who are generous with their words and encouragement is like a magnet. They are kingdom people who seek to show off a generous God and who do it sacrificially and with joy. That lovely moment when you ask someone for their time that requires sacrifice and they say a JOYFUL yes. I have those people in my life and I know it is sweeter because of it.
More and more I have come to want more of this. Possessions are literally worthless when it comes to bringing God’s kingdom here on earth. My wants and my desires to have the latest fashion item (not that i could ever tell you what this is – I am clueless in this area) or my own space and time are meaningless when it comes to living out community that manifests the glory of God. I want Jesus to be evident in how I do every aspect of my life and I believe that this comes from a heart that seeks to give over and over again. Giving costly and cheerfully. Counter cultural in our society but in the kingdom it’s the only way.
How many times I have thought in that tit for tat manner that my 6 year old had today. It’s mine I want it, it’s mine you can’t have it, it’s mine because I deserve it, or it is mine and you can only have it with something in return. How wrong are these thoughts. Giving to meet the standard when we should be giving and then some. My home, my possessions, my money, my clothes and the list goes on are utterly worthless when it comes to God and His Kingdom. I recently had the privilege of being in a conversation of a group of friends who all went to same church who shared clothes, they had house keys for each other’s homes and the policy of what is mine is yours wasn’t just a nice saying but a reality. The heart behind this of course was value. They valued each other and people over their worldly goods or their most treasured possession. It was infectious to be around, it was love and joy acted out in the most beautiful way. God is a generous God. In our lives we have found we can never out give God! He always has more than we could ever give.
How infectious is it to be around friends who try cunning ways to pay the bill first at a restaurant or who give away something you mentioned in passing you like. This is the way I want to live all the time not just when it suits, convenient or requires no sacrifice.
I want to hold on to ‘things’ so lightly that I will go wherever God takes me because it won’t matter where I live or if my furniture matches but His Kingdom, His people will be worth more than any of that.
The other day I looked at our toothbrush holder and it is a plastic McDonald’s cup of the Lego Movie. I looked at it and thought about buying a new one and then another thought quickly entered my head of why would I do this? Why would I spend money on a holder for our toothbrushes that no-one will ever see or care about. Spending a fiver on something that is literally worthless when that fiver could go towards something way more significant for those who have nothing. It’s a silly example I know but it’s those little decisions I am hoping that will build into a lifestyle.
Jesus teaches us over and over again about what treasure we should be seeking. Many examples in the gospels about how riches and possessions can keep us from being a follower of Jesus. May we position our hearts to never put something before the Kingdom of God.
We are trying to teach our kids the value in being generous. Helping them to see and value people more than any possession. That we give over and over again and sometimes it hurts because it requires sacrifice but Jesus and His kingdom is worth more than all the riches in the world. In our experience so far has been only that as a family as we have given we have received much more of a blessing than we could have imagined. Photo credit Ruth Kelly ( ruthkellyphotography.tumblr.com)
Wanting to live generously I realise that it starts with me as an individual, then as a family, as a church, as a community. I never want to value possessions over people, I want to keep giving and not being sucked in by what the world says I should have or wear – yes sometimes that is hard but the joy that comes with it is inexpressible.
‘Generous’ – showing a readiness to give more of something, especially money, than is strictly necessary or expected.
This weekend on the Saturday afternoon at 3.30pm I got to spend 24hrs with 3 friends who I have known for a long time. It was a privilege. These girls have been with me and journeyed with me through many … Continue reading